Living on the Flip Side

August 21, 2008 on 12:16 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Are you aware that right now, at this moment in time, you are creating your life and all you experience and see around you? Literally what you are thinking and feeling right now, and giving your focus to right now, is planting the seeds of your future for you.

Sure, we all know the choices and decisions we make affect the outcome of our lives through the consequences of our actions. What I am talking about, though, is very different than the seriousness of all those choices, decisions, and consequences.

I’m not talking about bad karma, good karma, or rewards for your just and proper life. I’m talking about real living. Living from your heart and the core of who you chose to be here, and what you’ve sent along with yourself here to create this life with.

Find a way to be grateful for each and every negative experience you have been through in your life. Through those experiences that you planned for yourself, you have grown to where you are. Each and every one of us can look back on every single negative thing we have been through, and find grace in it by acknowledging all we learned from those experiences. Thank our creator for allowing you to learn and grow from those experiences and release the hold they have on you. Say goodbye and be refreshed, no longer allowing them to “be who you are”. You are not your experiences. They were there for growth not to become one with.

Do not let others define who you are. Better yet, do not let yourself be defined at all! What do I mean by that? I run across many, many unhappy people who have lived a certain life because it was expected of them. I’ll give you an example. A rare and talented artist, for instance, who didn’t believe in his talent, miserably unhappy and not painting at all, striving in business, and surrounded by negativity crossed my path one day.

I am here for rescue, so when someone crosses my path like this, I know I am to pull them out. Through reading him, I discovered his talents lying dormant, and what his fears had created in his life through not living real. I helped him to see why he was given these gifts, helped him gain confidence, and point him in the right direction for living the life that will give him the pleasure that his spirit seeks here. He is now sharing that art with the world, and everything around him, and the support he so desperately has needed is falling in to place. He is now beginning to experience real living.

We are given gifts for a reason. That reason is to share, to bring others light, and hope, and to love using the gifts we brought with us to create a better world for ourselves and all those around us. No matter what your gifts, when you live from the heart, others will be touched.

11:11! Do You See It?

June 15, 2008 on 7:54 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Are you one of the many who seems to only see times and numbers that contain the number 11 on, in, and around everything throughout your day? Do you know what it means? What does it mean to you? This communication from spirit has gotten much stronger in my own life in the last few months.

We have had several recent power outages in my area due to storms over the last couple of weeks. Some clocks got reset, and some did not, before the next storm came rolling through.

On this particular day, there was not a clock in my entire home that actually read the same time. Although, this is often the case in my home, as we set different clocks ahead of each other to help us make appointments on time, many clocks had become hours apart. The only correct time on any digital display was on the laptop I was writing on.

During days I have set aside time just for writing, I am often absorbed in my laptop. I take frequent breaks to stretch, meditate, go back and forth to get drinks from the kitchen, maybe take a walk to get the mail, etc.

Every time I stopped that day to take a bathroom break, walk to the kitchen , check the mail, and had to pass a clock, no matter what room that clock was in, it read 11:11. I opened the mail, and found I had received a bill for $11.11.

On another day, every time I glanced absent mindedly at the clock as I worked, it always read something :11, from 12:11, all the way back around to 11:11.

Other experiences I have had over the last few months include being awakened during the night by a loud voice shouting, “WAKE UP”. I open my eyes and look at the clock, and it is 11:11. I fall back asleep, only to have it all replay again at 1:11. Many other nights, I have stayed awake between these times and meditated. I received a great deal of answers from my guides during those meditations.

Another strange occurrence, even for me, was having the phone to ring one evening when I was home by myself writing. When I reached for the phone to look at the caller id, the display read 111-111-1111, then it stopped ringing in my hand on the third ring.

Other combinations I see constantly are 4:11 and 9:11.

The energy of this communication is exciting, and brings with it a sense of great urgency for me. I feel awake, enlightened, humbled, and so many other feelings that words cannot properly describe.

Numerology tells us 11 is a master number. If you are experiencing this blessed spirit communication, you are waking up to your full potential. You can rest, assured, you are on the right path.

Breaking Through the Skin You’re In

June 4, 2008 on 2:49 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Do you know yourself? Do you know the spirit who lives within you and has chosen this shell, this skin you are in, to house it in this lifetime? Do you know why you have chosen this particular shell? To everything, and I do mean everything, there is a reason.

Take the time to get to know the real you. There is an incredible bright spirit that lives within you. That spirit is you. If you don’t already meditate, learn to. Learn to look at your shell from the inside out to understand who you have chosen to be in this life in order to achieve the growth and learning that you have come here to achieve.

We, as a whole, look from the outside in. We are programmed that way. The key is in reprogramming yourself to come from inside out. We are programmed to think of ourselves and view ourselves as a product of our “outside” world, or a product of our environment. What goes in from outside, combined with the gifts and tools we brought with us, becomes who we are. If you come, though, from the inside to the outside,
you will come to see a beautiful difference. Your outside circumstances such as a neglected childhood, or other traumatic experiences, that you may feel have shaped who you are in a negative sense, become, instead, blessings, as you will start to see the underlying reasons for those situations or circumstances in your life

You have chosen this shell because it fits in with the other tools, gifts, talents, obstacles, situations, and growth you chose to help you with achieving your mission or purpose, but it is truly not who you are. It is only part of the package you chose in order to have the best circumstances for success.

If you really want to get the most out of this life, get to know your shell. Really get to know your personality, positive and negative points. Overcome the negative by turning them into positives, and use the gifts, and the tools you’ve brought to make a positive difference in this world. We all can. It is no one’s choice but yours whether the difference you make is positive or negative.

Each and every person has brought a unique set of tools to work with. Your gifts or tools, are simply what you’re drawn to, and what things you do best. Other tools are things such as personality traits, life circumstances, special skills, or special areas of interest, and believe it or not, even obstacles.

I am not at all saying that everything in life is predestined. I am only saying that certain life situations are part of our greater plan to learn and grow from. What we do with it from there, is up to each one of us as individuals. We have free will to make choices and decisions that, most certainly, can and do, affect the outcome of our lives.

Autism is a Gift

June 1, 2008 on 7:00 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Are you raising a child with autism? Perhaps you are raising more than one, on different ends of the spectrum. If so, then consider yourself blessed! These children have chosen to come here at this time all together to literally change the world, and chose YOU to be their Mommy or Daddy. Looking at it from that point of view, you are in a position of great honor. You have been blessed with the gift of raising a gifted child!

I’ve seen many people, when faced with a child, whose diagnosis fall somewhere along the spectrum, literally “mourn” their child, and what their lives’ may have been like if their child had been “normal”. Some even go to great lengths to find ways to make their child “normal”, or hide the fact the child has autism. Certainly not to say that we shouldn’t help our children in every possible way that we can to improve their skills, but hiding it or pretending it isn’t there, is unhealthy for all, especially the child!

Many are on brave crusades to expose the truth behind the causes. Others are finding great success in returning to our earth for nutrition, and teaching others how to do the same. Still, others are rescuing hundreds of families by providing appropriate, affordable, school environments, therapies, and centers. All, when raising a child with autism, find their voice in joining with others in one arena or another. All are badly needed, and bring blessings and hope to the many families they touch. I assure you, though, all of us came here with the purpose of learning and growing from autism being part of our larger plan.

What has raising a child with autism taught you about yourself? How have you grown? What was your life like before autism compared to now? I had a corporate career before autism. Autism forced me to use my gifts, and to think outside of the box more naturally than thinking inside the box. Sometimes things are put into our blueprints to lead us in an entirely different direction. They cause us to create paths that would not otherwise have been created, and use talents and abilities we might otherwise, have been unaware we even had.

When you really take a look at all you have learned about yourself through the trials of raising a child with autism, you will be amazed at how it has transformed you, and made you a better person. I have found that I have strength, patience, and determination beyond any measure I could have ever imagined. Autism has taught me that I am a teacher and an educator, an advocate, an entrepreneur, a protector, a defender, survivor, and a nurturer, among many, many other things. It has brought me together with people who I would not otherwise have come in contact with, and truly blessed my life through all we have been able to accomplish by pooling our strengths and talents.

Autism is bringing great gifts to the whole world. It is bringing together people worldwide for a common cause. It is teaching our world to live and act in more positive ways. It is exposing truths that would not otherwise be exposed. It is bringing tolerance and understanding to mass amounts of people. It is teaching us to love freely and openly. It is teaching us to return to the healing gifts of our earth. It is showing us how to walk different paths. It is teaching us to turn away from the negative and focus on the positive in our lives.

These children are gifted in many, many different ways. Many are our next generation of inventors, writers, actors, scientists, scholars, experts, meteorologists, designers, programmers, producers, musicians, and artists.

The obsessions of aspergers syndrome that you initially may have tried to “get rid of” in your child, will ultimately lead to very fulfilling careers. The facts that your child is constantly absorbing and telling you non- stop will lead to becoming an expert in a field of fascinating interest to him/her later in life.

We may help them to learn the social rules, learn better communication, and to appear like other children who do not have autism, but the gifts of autism are still there. The mind of a person with autism thinks differently, and creates freely, without the social fears usually associated great accomplishments. They also are able to hyper focus in areas where they have an extreme interest helping them excel in very specific careers and businesses. What we do now, including whether issues are handled positively with love, or negatively with anger, will make the difference in how far they are able to go!

An Unexpected Message

June 1, 2008 on 6:55 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

About a year ago, a client and friend booked me for an evening of readings in her home. She had several friends from work who wanted to have readings. None of them had ever had a reading, and all thought they would feel more comfortable having readings one on one throughout an evening with friends.

I arrived for the appointment a little late and a little stressed. I am the mother of three children, two of whom are affected by autism. Sometimes evening appointments can be really challenging to get to, as autistic children like for things to be the same and on the same schedule. I felt blessed that this client was also a close friend who knew my struggles and challenges, and I felt certain had conveyed them.

Upon arriving, I said hello to everyone, and of course, apologized for being late, set myself up in the room they wanted me in, and began to meditate to release all the energy that was my own, ground myself, and ask for guidance. I asked, as I always do, to be made a vessel of light and to be given information to help, inspire, and enlighten the people who would be coming in one by one that evening.

All ready for the first reading, I walked back down the hall to see who would be going first. As everyone looked up to see me appear in the doorway, a woman stood and said, “I have to go first you guys. We are really going to fight tonight if he has to keep the kids very long for me to do this!” Everyone laughed, and I said, “Well, then, I guess you’ll be going first!”

We sat down, got comfortable, and I asked her what type of reading she was hoping for. She told me she was hoping for just an overall type reading, and was also hoping there might be someone who would come through for her during the reading from the other side. She said she would be excited to hear from anyone, as she had many loved ones who had already crossed.

With that I began the reading, giving her information about various events and such that I saw in her future, describing people, and answering her questions. We were just about to wrap up, when I felt the shift of energy, and ringing sensation in my ears that signals to me there is someone coming through to communicate.

I described for her the two spirits I saw - what they looked like, what their personalities were like, and how they had died, and told her, “The female is saying she is Mom and he is saying he is Dad, but I get the feeling they are not.” I gave her the female’s name, and described a ring the male showed me, to which she informed me, “You have my mother and father in-law.”

I gave her the messages they had specifically for her, feeling and seeing the release of her emotion that such communication always brings when information is given that validates beyond a doubt the further existence of loved ones lost.

Then, a dog seemed to come out of nowhere, running all around me, stopping for a moment, and then going back from where he came. I described the dog as a retired police dog or a German Sheppard to my client, describing the dog in full detail, and asked her if she knew the dog. She said she didn’t, but she thought her husband had a dog like I was describing as a child. I felt the energy of all who were visiting pulling back, and as they were leaving I heard, “Tell him we love him and we have Buddy!”

I told her, “They want your husband to know they love him and that Buddy is with them. Please tell him that.”

“I will.” She said. “I don’t know the name of his dog from childhood, but I can’t wait to get home and tell him about this and about Buddy. He doesn’t believe there is anything after death, and he wasn’t very happy about my getting a reading. He says it’s all hogwash! “

I hugged her, bid her well, and received the next client.

The next day, bright and early, I received a call from the dear lady who had gotten a surprise visit from her in-laws the evening before. She was in tears as she was telling me her husband’s reaction to the message and validation he had received through his mother naming his childhood friend. His life direction had been completely turned around, overnight, by one simple sentence from the other side.

The messages that need to come through always do.

How I Receive Information

June 1, 2008 on 6:50 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

I receive information in many different ways. I am clairvoaynt, which means I “see” frames of information, or fast moving pictures, or sometimes “still” pictures in my mind’s eye. At times, It is almost like watching a movie being fast forwarded in front of my eyes, as I catch bits and pieces of it “passing through”, except that I also may “feel” it. I can also see spirits and ghosts.

I am clairaudient, which means I hear information from the other side, as well as hear sounds pertaining to the person or situation I am reading. For example, if you ask me what you future spouse does for a living, when I focus in, I might hear the sound of construction machinery, and the pounding of nails, buzzing of saws, and a hollow echo of all these sounds together. Then I would tell you, he is in the construction industry. Another example, is when spirits are coming through from the other side, I hear their voices, and what they wish me to pass on to the person I am reading.

I am empathic, which means I literally feel others feelings and vibrational energy. It also means during those fast moving “movie” flashes, I feel everything I see taking place!

Sometimes, I just know things, like the information has been downloaded into my mind. In these instances, the information I receive is channeled. This is the hardest to describe, because I don’t necessarily see, hear, or feel it, but at the same time, I might see, hear, or feel it! For example, you might ask me for information about your dear grandmother to help you validate it is actually her who is coming through, at which time, I have an overwhelming smell of channel no. 5, and the smell of apple pies baking, as well as just “know” certain facts about her. Or another, different example is, you might ask how old the person I am describing that I am connecting with was when they died or what they died from, and I just automatically “know” 82 and stroke, or I might be shown in various different ways so that I connect with the information in order to give it to you.

I am also a medium, which means I see, hear, smell, taste, and feel information from spirits on the other side. This enables me to connect them with you during your reading to validate for you their further existence, and helps to heal your grief over loosing your dear loved one.

Regardless of how I receive the information, it is here and available to you to help you along your journey during our reading!

Do Psychics Automatically Read Everyone?

June 1, 2008 on 6:41 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

From time to time, people who I’ve come in contact with on a social basis, who later find out that I am psychic, will react strangely to the new information they’ve learned about me. Some might become distant for a bit, even though we’ve had great, friendly conversations before, or suddenly look at me strangely when they see me for a moment. Some just come out and ask me if my being psychic means I know a lot of personal information about them or will just start telling me all kinds of personal information about themselves and why they have made the choices they have, as if they are afraid I am judging them in some way.

The answer to the question is, no, I am not constantly reading everyone I come in contact with 24 hours a day, 7 days per week! When I am doing readings, I “turn on” and when I am not, I “turn off”. Does this mean I never receive information without “turning on”? No, unfortunately, it doesn’t. Things will still come through sometimes if someone from the other side who really wants the person I’m talking with to know something!

Just because I’m psychic doesn’t mean I naturally just “know” everything about anybody and everybody! Thank goodness!

Living in the Now

June 1, 2008 on 6:34 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

If you are holding on to the past, you could be robbing yourself of your future! As the old saying goes, “One door must close, before another can open!”

Negative emotions attached to past situations hold us back and keep us from being able to receive blessings and attract positive forces in our lives here and now.

Get to the heart of the issue, and gain knowledge. Find out why it is so hard for you to let go through quiet time and meditation. Visually release those old issues through your body and watch them float off in the air while you are meditating. Ask for the guidance you need to leave them behind. Most importantly, walk away, and know you have left them behind removing yourself from all negativity that redirects you to that point in your life.

Are You Afraid of Success?

June 1, 2008 on 6:30 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Believe it or not, what holds a great many of us back is not fear of failure, even though, we make ourselves believe that. It is often just the opposite. We are afraid we will succeed beyond our wildest imaginations!

What is it that you have always wanted to do? If you are not enjoying your work, you are not in the right profession! If that is the case, then it’s time to go inside yourself, look for answers and find your direction!

It is not the things we have done in our lives that we will regret, but the things we didn’t do! If you ever talk with anyone who has faced death and is still here, they will tell you. It was what lay dormant in dreams left behind, the things they wanted to do, but didn’t try to achieve that plagued them when they reviewed the life they had so far lived.

As a cancer survivor, I can tell you. Let go of your fears and live the life of your dreams. It will make the difference you lack in your life. Use all your imagination, spread your wings, and fly! Be aware of your ability to help others in whatever arena that is. Come from a place of love and gratitude in all you seek, and you will be guided.

Death is Not the End

June 1, 2008 on 6:24 am | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Everything around us is constantly changing and evolving. Death is only one of those changes. The person still exists once they leave us. They just exist on another plane. They can still visit with us, and see us, just not in the same way they did while on this plane with us.

We are all actually dead on this plane, and they are alive on the other plane. We are born dying. We are designed to only be here temporarily for growth, then return to our home on the other plane.

It is devestating to lose a loved one, I know. Please know, though, they are with you, still sharing every special moment, holiday, and trying time you go through. Pay attention, and they will make themselves known to you. The more open you are to their communications and signs, the more you will see them. (or hear them, or smell special scents related to them!)

What’s it Like to be Psychic?

May 31, 2008 on 9:05 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

People often ask me, “What’s it like to be psychic”? I used to find it very hard to answer that question, because I have nothing to compare it to! I’ve always been psychic, so I do not know what it is like to not be psychic!

I have learned, though, that what most really want to know is, if it is scary, how I receive the information, and if I am constantly reading anyone and everyone I come in contact with! I will attempt to answer the first of those three questions here!

As a child, seeing random images, and encountering entities in my hallway, I have to admit, was very scary! It was especially scary because it was taboo in my childhood home to speak of it. It was viewed as a tool of the devil instead of the gift from God that it actually is. When I tried to talk about it, I was told not to speak of it or people would believe me to be crazy or mentally ill! I spent most of my childhood in fear of my gifts and desperately trying to make them go away! What was the most frightening for me was being able to feel what everyone around me was feeling, and not knowing what to do with it all or how to separate my feelings from everyone else’s!

There were two very special souls whom I took refuge in during those very hard years. One was my dear grandmother (who also had the gifts, and was viewed by most of the family as being off her rocker!), the other was my dear spirit friend Becky, (who my parents insisted was nothing more than a figment of my imagination, an imaginary playmate!)

Unfortunately, I lost my treasured grandmother when I was just a mere eight years old, and I lost the comfort and pleasure of her company here on the physical plane. I still cherish all the memories of the time we spent together and all of her “hushed” advice that she shared only with me when no one else was around.

My friend, Becky, though, continued to grow with me year after year sharing plenty of welcomed advice and coping skills for many years. She gave me a safe haven to deal with my frustrations and was always a positive and stable presence in my young life. It wasn’t until I was a teenager that I discovered her true identity. My aunt had some of my grandmother’s pictures professionally restored and copied for my mother. We were all sitting around the living room looking through all the pictures, when I came across a picture that looked a lot like Becky, only she was much older. I asked, “Who is this?”, My mother and aunt walked over to take a look, and almost simultaneously spoke the words, “That is our great grandmother, Rebecca”. My mother later told me that Rebecca had been known as a great spiritual healer in her day. (Which made me wonder why they seemed to view her as a saint instead of one of the devil’s angels!)

It wasn’t until I was a young adult that I finally learned to accept my gifts and fully embrace them. I had melanoma cancer when I was just shy of 21 years old and was given 3-6 months to live. It was through the very spiritual experiences that I had during that time of my life that I learned my purpose and finally began to make peace with my gifts, and further develop them in order to use them to help others.

Embracing Your Gifts

May 31, 2008 on 8:59 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

We all have gifts. Do you know what yours are? I truly believe, right down to the moment we are born, and how that relates to our talents and gifts, is planned. I truly believe we assist with that planning. Our strengths, talents, and information about what drives us, can all be found in our astrological birth charts.

This is yet another benefit of meditation. Connecting with your higher self is essential to really know what purpose your talents and gifts bring. This is invaluable to help yourself through the challenges and blocks that stand in the way of your full potential in this life.

I believe also planned, are our weaknesses and what we must overcome for our own unique spiritual growth. Understanding those challenges helps us get through them . Getting through them means we are able to radiate our talents and gifts to help others, and use them for the benefit of all.

Most of us know what our gifts are, but may not use them. Many have blocks or fear associated with their gifts, or what I like to call “family programming” to overcome. Some just haven’t yet discovered how to get from point A to point B. Wherever you are on your spiritual path, there is always more to learn on every subject.

I believe we are happiest when using our talents and gifts to help others, and in doing so, we truly live the life of our dreams.

Spiritual Awareness

May 31, 2008 on 8:48 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

If you are searching for spiritual awareness, then it is spiritual awareness you will find. The way to get there is very simple, though the road to get there through the obstacles you must overcome, can sometimes seem long.

What we seek out is what we find. Be a seeker. Matthew 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and ye shall find; knock, and it shall be opened unto you: 8 For every one that asketh receiveth; and he that seeketh findeth; and to him that knocketh it shall be opened. Mathew 7:7-8.

It sounds really simple, doesn’t it? It is! Come from a gratifying, peaceful place. Come from deep within yourself. Ask for what you need, and be ready to receive it. Look for truth, and truth will find you. Focus yourself on higher thought wave patterns beyond the illusions of life.

Ever heard the saying “What you put out there, you get back”? Our thoughts are energy. We are made of energy. Remember that, and do not think of the judgements of others. You are what you make yourself. Make yourself a shining
light!

Can Psychics See Things About Their Own Lives?

May 31, 2008 on 8:42 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

The answer to that question is both yes and no. I can’t speak for all, though I have friends with psychic abilities and we all have had similar experiences.

I will get little tidbits and pieces of a puzzle about things in my own life. I get them through dreams, or maybe something said through visits with passed loved ones in my dreams. Sometimes I get them through thinking of someone often and little tidbits that meant something to that person being in front of me a lot in one day right before someone passes. And even, at others, I will just know something as it happens or as they cross. (but not before)

The clarity of the tidbits I get about my own life, are nothing in comparison to the clarity of the visions, images, sounds, or knowing I receive when reading for another.

To me, this makes sense. If we were able to know everything about our own lives before it happened, it would be awfully hard to grow through our experiences.

A lot of us are here on rescue themes, which can at times, bring pretty chaotic lives until we get to the point of being able to help on a greater level.

There are also a lot of us here on humanitarian themes, which sometimes leaves our loved ones to suffer while we are making the world a better place!

Regardless of the theme, most others psychics I have talked with have trouble seeing clearly where their own lives are concerned. Thank goodness we have each other!

Are Mediums Able to Communicate With Their Own Loved Ones Who Have Passed?

May 31, 2008 on 8:35 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

Yes. Where it is hard for me to see things clearly psychically about myself, my medium abilities are a different story all together. I can communicate with my own loved ones who have passed whenever they visit as easily as I can communicate with them for you. I have to be honest though, sometimes they really have to make a fuss for me to pay attention and “tune in” during a time when I am not “tuning in” for someone else!

For the most part, though, they just want me to know they are here and they are around, and offering their loving support. They have busy lives on the other side, so they are not always hanging around, but they do come to visit.

Sometimes I am anxious awaiting contact from a loved one who has passed. I want to know they made it immediately! Unfortunately, it doesn’t always work that way. Sometimes it does, but in some cases it may be days, weeks, or even months before I finally hear from them.

There are several reasons for the delays. 1) They no longer are bound by time. Though it has been a long time for you, it was no time for them. 2) Those who have had an especially hard life may need more when they get to the other side, and thus, in our plane, take a little longer. 3) They may take their time getting there, be disoriented for a time, or still be attached to issues here preventing them from going immediately. For the most part, though, they do all make it right away.

What Can I Do to Help a Spirit Who is Still Here as a Ghost?

May 31, 2008 on 8:27 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

I often have people come to me with the issue of a presence in their home they want to get rid of. Many times we find that there is more than one presence there!

Most often than not, clients are afraid of the entities. Let me say this now. Please don’t be afraid of them. They cannot hurt you. Have compassion on them and do your part to help them make it to the light. Others on the other side are constantly working to get them back. You can assist them from here.

If you can find out who the ghost might possibly be (through local research on the area where your house stands, or perhaps the services of a spirit medium), it does help to speak to them by name, however, if you don’t have a name, there are still effective ways to help them. The key here, is the soul must be willing to go.

If you are able to convince them what they are looking for here is no longer here and awaits them on the other side, they will be willing to go.

Pray for the soul. Ask your guides to send someone to take him/her into the light.

Speak aloud to them. If you have a name, call them by name. If you have other specifics like the mother’s name, child’s name, etc., tell them those people wait for them on the other side. Tell them what happened to them happened a long time ago and that the others have been waiting a long time. Tell them to go to the light and go to them. Tell them to go home!

There is no reason for any theatrics, no lights out, seance circle, or any of the Hollywood drama! (though it is sometimes helpful to find someone familiar with this type work to help you with this task) Just simply pray for them to be received, and tell them to go home! ~Beth

Dealing With Death and Grief

May 31, 2008 on 8:10 pm | In Uncategorized | No Comments

and the dust returns to the ground it came from, and the spirit returns to God who gave it. [Ecclesiastes 12:7]

We fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal. [2 Corinthians 4:18] NIV

Losing a loved one can be very hard, and even, at times emotionally damaging if negative emotions are held onto.

The most important thing to remember is your loved on is now surrounded by peace, love, and understanding. They do not have regrets, feel sad or feel angry and any negative emotions they had while on this plane are now gone.

The one emotion I see people struggle with most often, after the death of a loved one, is guilt. Please don’t do this to yourself. Your loved one knows how much you loved him/her, even if you feel you were unable to convey it before their death.

It is okay to miss them, and wish you could be with them again here, however, please know they do visit you still, send you energy, and are still involved in your life. It is just that now, it is on a different level. Rest assured, you will most certainly see them again.

Talk aloud to them. Tell them the things you felt you were unable to say. Know that he/she heard you, then release it. Do not keep any negative emotions any longer from that point.

Trust me when I tell you, your loved one wants you to continue with your life and not hold on to negative emotions of any kind. They wish for you happiness, peace, understanding, and most importantly,love.

~Beth

Welcome!

May 31, 2008 on 4:12 pm | In Uncategorized | 1 Comment

Thanks for stopping by. I’m Beth Layne.

I am a natural born psychic medium. I am clairvoyant, clairaudient, empathic, and a medium. I have been able to see, hear, and feel the unknown all of my life, as well as communicate with those on the other side.

If you’ve happened upon my site by accident, I assure you, there are no accidents. Perhaps you were guided here for spiritual growth. If that is the case, you’re at the right place. I am here to help you with just that - spiritual growth.
I am able to do readings of any subject matter.

I am honest, and direct, sincere, and compassionate. If you are looking for someone to tell you only what you want to hear about a situation, I am not the right psychic for you. If you want the honest truth about the situation you are wanting to know about, then a reading with me would be very beneficial for you! You may not always want to hear the truth, or face the truth, but I promise you will not walk away from a reading with me without seeing the underlying reasons for the challenges you are having, and the opportunity of spiritual growth that is being presented to you through your challenges.

I am very upbeat, and friendly, and only do positive readings. I am also non judgemental, as I believe we are all here on our own unique paths to achieve our own unique spiritual growth. If we were all alike, then our growth would not be unique! Sometimes we have to go down the wrong path in order to see the right one! And sometimes one door must close in order for another to open!

I sometimes utilize the tarot as a focus tool, but do not necessarily need it to conduct your reading. My knowledge of astrology is also a tool I utilize.

Because I am an empath, I am able to “tune in” to the energy of a person and feel what they feel. Each person has their own “unique” energy in the way they “feel” to me, and each astrological sign has a certain “feel” to me. This allows me to pinpoint astrological signs or astrological categories of others who show up in your reading, and allows you to achieve clarity from the reading where others are concerned. I am also often able to “see” others in my mind’s eye, or get specific details about them or situations to further help you achieve clarity from the reading.

I also do spirit message readings to connect you with others who have passed.

Often while doing a psychic reading, I will have spirits who show up and want to come through. I have no control over who actually comes through for your reading. I am only the messenger, however, I am able to tap into information to answer questions about loved ones who have passed. I have never conducted a spirit reading for anyone who did not get some form of healing from the information they received, whether it be the person they were hoping to connect with, or another spirit with the pure validation that we do go on when we leave this life!

Clients often tell me a reading with me is a healing experience for them, and they greatly appreciate my attention to detail as well as my honesty.

If you are interested in booking a reading, please go to http://bethlayne.com/servicerates for complete information about my services and rates and how to reach me to book your psychic or spirit reading. I am available by phone, skype, or yahoo instant messenger, and accept paypal for payment. I sincerely look forward to the opportunity of helping you along your life’s path!

In Love & Light ~ Beth

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