Am I Doing the Right Things?
Q. It’s so odd, I feel everything from almost everyone else and can always help them out but when it comes to myself, I never know what I’m doing. When I sit down and write it’s like a free flow of positive ideas based on difficult circumstances just flow out of me and I’m not really sure where it comes from, yet I know the advice is right. I wish that I knew how to listen to myself and learn how to not always feel so worried when I feel shifts in others.
I’ve recently met someone new whom I’ve grown attached to and it’s so odd because one day he runs hot, the next day he runs cold. I worry that perhaps it’s not real, or perhaps it’s his own fear that pushes him into a back corner, or perhaps that I’ve ruined something by getting worried over little things. I just don’t know where I’m going and I don’t know if I’m doing the right things but when we talk and such, everything just feels perfect.
A. You are an empath, a spirit medium, a channel, and have the ability to automatic write. All of these natural gifts are waiting to be completely realized to their highest potential.
As is the case with most people who have metaphysical gifts, and are able to help others with those gifts, our own lives can often be described as chaotic at best. We tend to over analyze anything that comes to us about ourselves, as well as block information at times. And of course, there are some pieces of information we just don’t have access to about ourselves! How would we grow if we could see our own lives as clearly as we can for others?
Though empathic people can literally feel others’ emotions around us, that doesn’t exactly tell us why those people are feeling the way they are. We especially tend to over analyze where emotion is concerned in those we love, and we want to feel “safe” with our own emotions. One of the biggest points of over analyzing in these instances, is we tend to always think those emotions of our loved ones are geared toward us, when most of the time, they are not. We end up waiting for what seems like an eternity for them to just come out and tell us why they are feeling the way they are so we can stop analyzing the whole situation to death!
In answer to your relationship question, it is fear you are feeling from him, but is not necessarily a bad thing. The fear is there because he does feel the same connection with you. The important thing to note is, the fear has not driven him away. He is working through it. Be patient.
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