Posts Tagged ‘ghosts’
Every Gift is a Blessing
Although, it definitely may not seem so for the young medium, who constantly has ghosts around him, or even for the young clairvoyant, who is constantly seeing negative images, gifts are just that – gifts, and are never, ever a curse.
The law of attraction intensely applies to those who have spiritual gifts of any nature. It is extremely important, that you stay positive, if you want to be able to help others in a positive way. When the metaphysically gifted person becomes negative, all that can be seen or felt is negative.
Staying positive does not mean, however, that you will never see, experience, feel, or otherwise receive negative information, as we are given information in order to help. This is why learning the arts of grounding and detachment are essential to the well being of those who find themselves with gifts seemingly beyond their control. Learning techniques that help one ground themselves and detach themselves from the stream of information they receive is what brings more control.
Fear is the number one negative emotion that must be worked through. Being fearful, brings more to fear, as any other emotion constantly felt brings more of the same. Learning detachment and grounding will help in this area, but most important is to realize there is nothing to fear. The visions and feelings do not belong to you, and the ghosts are not here to frighten you. Compassion is the key.
The Work of a Medium
Messages come through to mediums in various different ways from the other side. They tend to come through in the best way to get the messages through the messenger. They will use whatever means available through the medium in order to either validate themselves, or in other cases, get specific messages through. For instance, one may see symbols that have specific meaning to him/her, and know to automatically say a certain thing, one may actually hear the spirits, or see them in the mind’s eye, or even as if they are standing before them. What we see/hear/feel, we describe, therefore allowing you to be able to validate the spirits who are coming through. Many times we are given specific information that only the person the message was intended for knows. In those cases, the validation is powerful, but it doesn’t mean any other means or information that comes through should not allow you to validate the spirit.
On the other side, from their perspective, their goal is to validate themselves in any way they are able to as quickly as possible. They are not able to stay for long periods of time, so there are sometimes, the energy might pull away if the spirit is not validated after several attempts.
Although most people who go to a medium for a spirit reading are hoping for a specific person to come through for them, if you are having a general spirit reading, I highly suggest coming to the reading with a very open mind. I suggest this, because if not, you may miss validating spirits that do come through. Especially because in many cases, the spirits will come through together, and the strongest energy will lead, so sometimes, there is a need to validate the “front liner” so that the others may follow.
If you are hoping for a particular person, then I highly suggest that the reading is targeted as such with a reader who will ask for something specific in order to work with the specific energy such as something that belonged to the person, a picture, or whatever the medium is able to work through and with to pull that specific energy of that specific person through. Many readers do both specific readings as well as general readings.
There are also other types of mediums who work directly with spirits who have not yet crossed to the other side, or in some cases, the spirit has crossed. The major point is the focus is different. The readings in this case are done for those who are left behind after a loved one has been a victim, or law enforcement. The medium works directly with the spirit to bring vital information to the family as well as law enforcement to bring justice, and/or closure.
You will also see mediums who work only with those who are stuck here as ghosts, in efforts to rescue them, or free them and help them cross to the other side. And, of course, there are also those who work in all the spirit realms mentioned above.
Most though, are drawn to a certain area of work with the spirit world depending on what their themes or purposes are for this life time. For instance, one who is here for healing, you will find mostly working with those left behind doing spirit readings. Those that are here for justice will feel more aligned in working with law enforcement.
Some mediums, however, do work with all realms of the spirit world. An example of a medium who does, is one who is here for rescue. You will often find these mediums in all facets, working with the spirit world and this world in any way that brings “rescue” of any type. Another example would be one who is here to validate the different realms.
What is important to remember no matter what type of reading or help you seek from a medium, is this: The messenger is never the message. The messenger is merely a channel that is able to be used in order to pass messages between here, the other side, and the space between us.
Can Ghosts See Us?
Q. Can ghosts see us?
A. Yes and No. Ghosts who are aware they have died can see us. Those who are not aware they have died, may not be able to until they are aware.
What Happens to the Ghost
Q. My friend’s house recently had a fire in the kitchen. There was damage to most of the house, so they decided to demolish it and rebuild on the same foundation. They had a ghost that they had lived with for many years in their home. They lived peacefully together, and as weird as it may sound, they really like having the ghost there. My question is, with the house not being there anymore, what happened to the ghost?
A. The ghost is still there. She is associated with the land, not the house.
Is His Mother's Ghost Haunting Him?
Q. My neighbor’s house has a presence they can’t explain. They smell certain dishes in their home being cooked that only his mother made, and always at odd times. It might not happen for quite a while, but then it will happen again. Is his mother haunting their home?
A. No. His mother isn’t haunting their home. She has crossed to the other side, and is a spirit, not a ghost who is trapped here. When they are smelling these smells only associated with her, she is visiting, and just letting them know she is with them. She sends these particular smells, as they automatically associate them with her.
